What traditions have you not kept that your parents had?
When I was not married when I was young I was very fond of makeup but my parents did not allow me to wear lipstick or bindi
They didn’t let me fall in love with any boy, they didn’t love and didn’t let me fall in love, didn’t let me go home alone, always went with
Didn’t let us enjoy the wedding to the fullest, didn’t let us dance in the wedding procession
They did not allow me to study properly because the college was far away and boys also studied there, so they did not allow me to study there, got my admission done in a nearby degree college and I started studying.
My parents got me married early and unknowingly, due to which I had to make a lot of compromises with my husband.
I had to eat the same food which I did not like, always used to say that learn to eat everything, don’t know what will be available to eat in the in-laws house.
I was not allowed to go to the cinema, and I was not allowed to watch romantic songs, I used to feel sad
I was not allowed to dance when a song used to play on the radio.
My parents used to harass me a lot, not letting me sleep in the cot outside when the lights went off and I felt hot
Once I went to a wedding and there were a lot of people there, friends had also come and some boys were also there, we were dancing, then my father started pulling me by holding my hand and took me inside and scolded me a lot, my mother also slapped me that why are you dancing out there when everyone was dancing and laughing a lot and I was sitting there
But it seems that it is good for the parents to rule over their children, because giving free hand makes the children go astray.
But do not rule your children so much that their life becomes suffocating.
Well, now I am old, depending on the wishes of my parents and husband, I have learned that there is no life of my own, everything is theirs, now what is left, I am 50 years old, now there is no desire left.
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