My mother taught me that do not answer anyone, whether it is right or wrong, listen to everything, the bier leaves from the in-laws’ house, the doli is picked up from the parents’ house. The only teaching I liked from my mother was to be honest.

And I started doing the same thing in my in-laws house, anyone would accuse me of anything and I would remain silent but my mother-in-law would say, hey, tell me you didn’t do this, still why are you silent?

I used to say to her, Amma, you tell her that I did not do this thing, you tell me, but Amma used to say, you do not have a mouth, you eat a lot of spicy food, you cannot speak, I will not speak, you learn to speak, people will keep fooling you like this, people will stop talking to you. will take advantage

And after 7 years I started replying to everyone, then Amma would say wow Suprrrr now you are worthy of becoming my daughter-in-law.