What advice would you give to your teenage self?

There are a lot of changes on the body and mind during adolescence that are completely new to us that we are not aware of. 

It is most important for girls to tell them the truth during adolescence. 

When I was 14 years old, I got my period. I didn’t know anything about it, nor did I see anyone doing it. 

When I was a teenager, everything was new to me. I didn’t know that this was also a process in a girl’s body. 

Now I am crying a lot, I am hiding myself wondering what has happened to me, I am not going in front of anyone, my clothes are getting spoiled and I am having stomach ache. My mother had gone to Taiji’s place for a wedding. the program was 

My father was there, he also doesn’t know anything and I am not going anywhere. 

Papa was feeding me Hajmola again and again. When I could not bear the pain, I fell on the ground. 

Now father went to call mother out of panic. Taiji’s house was at a distance of one kilometer. Mother came and saw me and asked what was the matter. 

I am not even telling them, I was very afraid of my mother that she would start scolding me for what I ate from the market because I was in the habit of eating samosas, chaat and many other things from the market. 

But mom saw my clothes and made me lie down in her lap and asked dad to leave from there. 

Then mom made hot water, put it in a bottle and kept it in my stomach, then I got relief. 

After that she changed my clothes and told me that this happens to every girl, it is a physical process and asked me to tell her everything, I will never tell you anything again. 

At this age, there is curiosity to eat spicy things and know something. 

Due to ignorance, teenagers go on the wrong path. At that time, my mother was like a friend of mine who used to keep an eye on my activities and guide me while giving me knowledge of all the things. 

At this age, I feel very good in doing fashion, there is a feeling that someone is looking at me and there is also an attraction towards some boy, but my mother’s teachings and her guidance tell me that I should not talk to strangers or go anywhere with them. You should stay in front of your family.