I did not know anything when I got married, I did not understand the meaning of marriage, but my husband first taught me its meaning, then I understood that marriage means sacrificing one’s dreams, suppressing one’s desires. Make every effort to make your husband happy and consider him yours. 

They taught me that after marriage I don’t have a home anymore. 

He taught me that not doing anything against his will would be what my husband would want. 

He told me that serving his parents and listening to their heart-felt talks is now the real joy of marriage. 

He taught me that now the real meaning of marriage is to stop studying and cook at home and serve him and his parents. 

They taught me to drink the tears within myself and to live suffocated and like a butterfly, like a bird, to remain confined within their four walls. 

He told me that if money was not received from my parents’ home and goods were not received, then I had to listen to their harsh words silently and not say anything. 

And it has taught me a lot to give birth to a son only. 

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now i close my mouth hello